It really pisses me off. People always stereotype us as angry, unattractive, promiscious, and ghetto. I'm neither of these things. I'm a very shy sista but I was raised to speak my mind and tell the truth. I'm mad because some Black women are pertpetuaing these myths. My mother and father and I worked hard for me not to be "one of these niggarish ghetto girls" And we are treated differnetly true, whenever I go to a high fashion store like Louis Vuttion people are always staring at me and saying rude stuff like "I don't think you'll like anything here, this isn't your style." or when I'm at school or on the street people act so surpised at the way my accent is and say dumb crap like "wow your so articulate" or people ask dumb questions like "how do you do you hair,do you wash your hair?" I'm on my way to college in a year and I'm going to defy every damn stereotype about Black women.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
Hmm I thinks as a black woman myself that people like to categorize black women as a whole and not as an individual. You do have those who like to "put wood in the fire" by matching the stereotypes perfectly. But no on ever takes a minute to recognize the the millions of black women out here making it and becoming strong women. Forget the music videos hoes (as some like to call them) and the all the rest because the end of day those respected black women will be the ones to make it on top.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
good for you!
people like you help to shatter stereotypes.
it's hard work, but you're a true pioneer! I applaud you.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
i think that black weman are strong,and alot of them feel good about expresing themselfs!! i have NOTHING against them
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
research the source of the stereotypes and see if there is any truth about your women and men. in myth there is truth. if there is a bit of truth, start there. help the people to change.
God bless you!
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
Sadly, you are one of the "Least Important" segments of society, according to Liberals, to whom all successful Black women are race traitors. I'm sure you have watched Maury-that is a stereotype people are comfortable with, and comfortable stereotypes are the hardest to shake.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
blame hollywood and the left, they've helped pigeon hole black people
for the last 60 years....
its nice to see that your trying to be human instead of black i think
you will go far in life with that positive idea...
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
I don't believe in stereotypes; I think those rap videos don't help with the image of the black women on the contrary they portray them as sex objects. Those videos, I am sure, contribute to the stereotype
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
I , LIKE OTHERS, APPLAUD YOUR RAGE, BUT REMEMBER, YOU HAVE TO LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE, AND DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS IMPORTANT, OR, RELEVANT. TRY NOT TO LET OTHERS, NO MATTER HOW IGNORANT, INFLUENCE WHO IT IS YOU HAVE DECIDED TO BE. IF YOU SIMPLY TRY TO BE BETTER THAN SOMEONE ELSE, YOU COULD BE LIMITING YOUR TRUE POTENTIAL!
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
Because some people see the characteristics of a few visible individuals and automatically associate it with the behaviours of an entire group.
People who think objectively know the characteristics of Black people are not the same across all socioeconomic sectors.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
Black women tend to be more outgoing and extraverted then their white counterparts. Some people interpret this as them being angry or ghetto. It is just people's ignorance showing through.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
As a black woman who is well spoken, well read and works in communication, I have heard the same silly, insulting comments. People without much experience with Blacks think that all Blacks are what they've seen on TV, and that is usually the criminal, the pimp or the servant. When someone tells me "wow, you're so articulate" I say "thanks, so are you." That tends to make them realize the silliness of what they just said. If someone tells you "you wouldn't like something in this store" ask "Why, is it of poor quality?" The best way to break down stereotypes is one person at a time. Good luck in college. :)
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
There's stereotypes against everyone. You can always prove them wrong! But the others are right. Complaining about being stereotyped as ghetto then calling yourself a "sista" doesn't make sense.
Anyone can be angry or promiscuous or ghetto. Black women are as different as night and day it doesn't make sense to think they are all alike just like any race or group. Black women may be judged by all the hip hop videos and culture but there are many black women who are highly religious, modest, educated, or whatever and nothing like the sterotype.
Don't worry about stereotypes just prove them wrong.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
You have the right idea. If you want to change the perception of others about you or your particular social group, YOU have to change, not tell others to change as it will never happen.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
It happens with every group. The ones who get the attention are the ones who make the headlines. If you're quiet, a good student, hard-working, etc, you are not on the news. I went through the same thing when I was in college during the Vietnam years. I was doing my studying on a train to go home for the weekend %26amp; people on the train were hostle to me for being a student! I live near Miami now %26amp; some of the Cubans protest by blocking the streets, etc. Most are hard-working folks who are happy to be here. In conclusion, any radical faction of any group who grabs the headlines puts a negative perspective on all of the rest.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
I'm as white as white can be and I think that only wimpy idiots who can't think of anything better to do are the ones that do that on purpose. others are raised that way. I saw on a tv show called treasure hunters that there was a red neck family always nagging on the black family -- to my satisfaction the stupid red necks barely lost to the black family!!! This is basically racialism. Plain and simple. Stupid fags that don't have brains that are half the size of a pea.
Just fight it. its a long, often difficult battle, but keep it up. And don't do anything even remotely ghetto, or they'll slap it in your face before you can say, "racist."
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
It is because euroamericans are only beginning to know you. and learn about you. Think of some witty comebacks for insensitive comments. My response to "Gee. They don't look american." is, " What does an American look like? "Then they will say, "Oh, you know what I mean." Then I reply, "Yes. And you know what I mean." My friends of african descent are always amazed at how much I know about them. They jokingly say, "Now don't tell all our secrets." Personally I have such respect for my sisters of color. Vacation at a more enlightened area for a needed break. But keep your eyes on the prize. Interracial marriage is way up and 65 % of euroamericans no longer oppose it. That leaves only 35%
needing enlightenment.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
I think you should embrace your color, and in the same token be yourself, when I first read your question the first thing that came to my mind is Tina Turner, she is a strong, beautiful and independent black woman, then I got to thinking, Rosa Parks, Mya Angelo, Oprah (very beautiful). There are so many others. My sister (yes she is black) is raising three kids on her own after her husband died, one of them is severely handicapped. She is a pillar of strength. Hold your head up high and let everyone else that stereotypes you look stupid.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
Hello! I understand you :) Your such a brave girl to post this.
About Louis Vuttion everybody can shop there, race doesn't matter. The owner of that glamorous company DOES NOT advertise for caucasians only. Your language I read some negative/slang descriptions though like pisses me off, sista, niggarish ghetto girls and damn, please avoid that. It belongs to the negative stereotypes. Don't be offended.
And don't mind those people who judge you. Go with your dreams. I know you can achieve those one day. Let successful black women inspire you like Oprah, Whoopi, Halle etc. Good luck!
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
I am a white female, so I have not had the same experiences with rascism as you, but I will say this, that yes there are alot of negative stereotypes, and alot of people play into them whether they be black/white, male/female, whatever. Society expects people to look and act a certain way. Unfortunatly the people that do not follow the negative stereotypes are still lumped in them. I want to congratulate you on trying to make a difference. Alot of people complain about the way that their race is looked upon but are not willing to stand up and prove them wrong. You just keep on being you and don't worry about what people think because you know you are not any of the negative things, and eventually people will start to see that.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
4get them. we are the most hardworking women on the planet. my b/f thinks im sexi and thats all that matters
all of these jealous ppl stop hatin
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
I'm white, and unfortunately I'm but forced to have certain views and stereotypes about other races. Everybody is.
For instance, I'm sure that when you think of a white person, you don't see him saying the N word. That's because it is rare to find someone that will say that word, and be white. Let's say there's a white person, who is racist enough to say it. Are you not following a stereotype by assuming that he never utters that word? I think you do.
What I'm saying here is that it is impossible for people not to stereotype, it's an ability that guaranteed us survival as a species. The problem is when people cannot change their stereotype, which shows ignorance.
My situation is this: I have certain stereotypes about black people, and every time I meet someone who is black I'm ready to change my stereotype. And I do, I keep forming it.
Even though I have stereotypes, that "stereotype" contains characters such as Bill Cosby, Collin Powell, Condoleeza Rice, and so on. These are people whom I respect very much, therefore I'm not racist.
I am against ignorant people, and this quality doesn't follow racial lines.
I'm glad you go to college, and I advise you to not only defy every stereotype about Black Women, aim a little bit higher. Defy ALL stereotypes.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
"I'm on my way to college in a year and I'm going to defy every damn stereotype about Black women."
That is a great goal! While in college, you can involve yourself in campus organizations that reach out to the youth community so you can share your observations and your drive to break stereotyping. Most college campuses have a radio station that is operated by students. It's a great format to get your message and vibe out there while having some fun. You also get access to pre-released music promos, concert tickets, movie passes and other fun stuff. You do not have to be in Media, Journalism or Communications to get a show, but those majors get the best time slots. Anyways, go kickass in college!
You shouldn't care what a sales person says to you at Louis Vuttion or anywhere. For real. YOU are shopping there and they just work there.
The next time you go to LV, raise your hackles at the door, smile and walk in like you own the place. When the sales beast walks over to you, just hold some clothes out in front of her face and say, Start a room please. Even us white girls get rude remarks in stores like that, where I end up standing there wishing a sales person would just go piss in the corner to mark their territory and get the whole mindfuck over with.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
I definitely understand you. Throughout history, there has been so much emphasis placed on power and dominance over races by another race and then the subtext of one gender being inferior or superior to another one that people have really become so unintelligent that they cannot see pass their own igorance to see we are all so much more alike than different.
It will happen, it will always happen, we just have to continue to do what is best for us. I learned long ago that when a person spends so much time focusing on another person in a negative way, they are intimidated by them and also afraid of this person's abilities versus their own.
Do your thing girl! Dont let anything hold you back!
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
Don't ever use the word "sista" if I was closed minded as soon as I see that word I would not even care about what you have to say.A lot of people are closed minded idiots.I don't want to say get over it though,I guess people like us should take a stand more.I'm tired not just of the stereotypes of black women,but I'm sick of all of the stereotypes.I'm tired of the stupid racist people,and I'm tired of these idiots passing their hate and stupidity to others.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
Girl, you are so right about ALL you have said, l can identify with the louis vuitton thing, my husband and i went to Houston, TX with the sole purpose of going to Louis Vuitton to buy the purse I wanted for my birthday. Now mind you, I already had a coach bag on my shoulder, a pair of 169.00 BEBE jeans on, a 80.00 BEBE shirt, and a pair of 259.00 pair of BEBE sandals, and when we walked up to the counter there were only 2 customers being helped and 2 associates who were not helping anyone. the 2 customers standing beside us did not buy anything, they were actually time wasters. however i knew the name of the bag i wanted and was ready to purchase the bag. the 2 associates that had no one in line pretended they were looking for something so i reported it to the manager on duty, and i walked across the hall to BEBE and bought me a bag from there.
then went right over to coach and bought a bag as well.
but i thought it was very stereotypical of them to automatically think i could not afford to buy an 800.00 bag from there. I wanted sso much to show them better, but instead i chose to get the hellll out of their store.
and also, i always get people asking me where i am from or people telling me i don't sound like i am from here because i "SPEAK WELL". i don't think that is bad to say, but i think people just expect me to speak broken up english because i am black. I feel you my sista, and no matter what people say, think, and do, you just be who you are and be very good at that. AND KEEP THE STEREOTYPE OF A STRONG BLACK WOMAN since they want to stereotype us.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
well you should, its not a myth if there are black women who really act like that
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
How would one answer a question like this without coming across as racist? I grew up in the iner city and had some really great black friends (girls/women). On the other hand there were some black girls/women who totally made me cringe by the way they acted. I think it is like this, you have your bad seeds in every race, and most of the good seeds are overlooked because they tend to be quiet (like you said you were kind of shy). To me women should act like women. The one thing I hated was how some of the black girls at school were really loud, obnoxious and thought they could say whatever they wanted. This stems directly from bad parenting I think. My mother and the mothers of the friends I have had always told me that if I have nothign nice to say don't say anything.
I think everyone should live by this rule.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
Don't let negative stereotypes get to you. Also if you get comments like "wow you are so articulate or do you wash your hair?", just reply back "I think you are articulate too" or "do you wash your hair?" Finally, if you are being harassed by a shop assistant, complain to the store manager, or better still the store director, I am sure they will not be pleased to hear about employee's who are rude and unwelcoming, to customers and after all, the customer is always right lol.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
That is a excellent gesture but when you look at a rap video black girl you also have to look at Oprah and other prolific women as well who have open the door and are successful. My answer is that you just can't account race, but class, education and etc. I myself am a African American male and I will rather watch Ludlow and Company than Rap City. There are stereotypes all over but dont let that tick you off. What matters is your individual personality and to be a beacon of light to others not only to your race but others. The most beautiful thing I learn in my experience in college is my leadership and inspiration not only in my race but illustrating it to people outside my culture. I am not label as a drug dealer or pimp,but a successful college of business student and child of god. Have a blessed holiday and stay focus in your road of life. I see you on top of the mountain with Martin.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
Trying to defy stereotypes is good but then you call yourself a "sista" and say your instead of you're, sort of playing into their hands. Nice try.
Why are there so many negative stereotypes about us Black women?
White, purity, truth, sincerity. Black, evil, loss, discord. I do so wish you would keep the one about good luck.
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