My mother smoked weed and I was abused as a kid. I was raised with a strong ghetto not to be offensive background. I have white skin I have been confused for being white. But I just have african style hair. I am also antisocial. I am scared that I am stuck with the kind of life I despise. I am scared I have to lower my standards and get married to a woman who I dread being with. This ghetto sort of behaviour comes with poverty I believe. I am not really disciplined so I dont have the best grades. I want to get out of this poverty and being stuck with lower classes of people. I am not racist but I just dont want to be stuck around the kind of behaviour that most people dont like.I am a sophmore in my second semester do I have a chance to get out of this sad lifestyle. If I do better second semester and my junior year?
Im half black and white and confused.?
I don't know why people that are mixed are so damn confused, look at Puertoricans, we are one third Black, one third Indigenous and one third Spainard, and we have no problems with out identitiy. having grown up in the ghetto means nothing, becuase alot of people grow out of it. you have to keep your head up and if you have to lose your friends in the ghetto then you do that. don't think just because you're mixed you have problems, dedicate yourself to school and you should be OK while applying to college if you're still in High School. it's not where you're from because you can always get out of the poverty culture. go to your local library and read as many books as you can on applying yourself in your academic activities, join a club in your school, like a chess club or a math club or a speech club, you have to apply yourself and you should be OK. the Ghetto is filled with folks who can get out but choose to stay, don't blame them, they are different from you. you are atleast acknowleding that you don't want to live that lifestyle, just rise above it. find yourself a mentor at a local community program provider. Volunteer. even if your school counselor doesn't listen to you, talk to them. they always say that they don't think kids from the ghetto want to get out no matter how much they want to help them. read books on improving your homework ethics. join a boys club if there's one near you.
You have to believe in yourself and you're already doing that because you want more out of life so begin with that and go on from there.
Stay in School and don't hang with people who are academically inclined, ask for help on your homework from your teachers any kids in your class.
Im half black and white and confused.?
first of all, dude, you're not 1/2 anything...you're a human being. by labelling yourself you limit yourself. Decide what it is you want from life then chase it down. There is always room for us to improve ourselves, and it is up to each individual to make that change; noone will do it for us. That being said, you have already taken the first step by admitting you're not happy with who you are and who you might become.... Do your best in the years to come, and never let anyone dull the potential that shines within you!
Im half black and white and confused.?
Do the best in everything that you do. Don't lower yourself to measure up, or measure down rather, to other people. Set some goals and try to be optimistic. Lack of parenting skills is a big downfall of society today and it is a shame. Just try really hard in school and be a better person. Try to set forth a new life and once the moment is right, you can leave that place.
Im half black and white and confused.?
I think you know the answers to your own questions but just need reassurance. It is never to late to start over. Be proud of your heritage and dont let anybody tell you that you CANT. From now on, cant should not be in your vocabulary. Write down realistic goals and start to accomplish them. 2007 is around the corner, time to make some changes. Good Luck. Oh, I love mixed people, you guys have the best of both worlds SMILE
Im half black and white and confused.?
It is never too late to follow your dream. It is more difficult to climb a mountain than to slide down a hill. But the view from the top is much better. Set your goals realistically, study, graduate. Decide what you are interested in and go after it. You are only limited by your own imagination. Good luck out there.
Im half black and white and confused.?
All those negative thoughts, and yet you have achieved more than many. Set your sights on the future, and achieve what you desire. The only thing holding you back is yourself.
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